Why Do We Need Self Control During The Age Of Adolescence
WHY DO WE NEED SELF CONTROL DURING THE AGE OF ADOLESCENCE???
Adolescent age also referred as the TEENAGE is known to be difficult right? But why? The answer is actually very simple because our body start to change. This is the time when our hormones act upon us the most. Have you ever thought that you are not perfect? Or maybe that no one likes you? No one wants to hear you? Or something even worse than that? If yes then that means your hormones and emotions are working the best. Since this is the time where we feel insecure after looking at the people around us thinking that they are probably more happier than us, more prettier than us, to stop this insecurity we need to have a self control on our emotions. This is also a time where we get addicted to things quickly. That is why having a self control on ourselves at this time is even more important. We often see people of our age uploading pictures on social media looking completely stunning and gorgeous and a little older than their actual age. Some adolescents gets jealous after looking at them thinking that those children are happier than them, prettier than them and even perfect when the reality is completely opposite, it's not always necessary that those, so called, influencers are very happy with their life or they actually are the way we see them on the internet. It might be possible that all those people who claim to be so happy on the internet are actually very depressed in real life, all those people who claim to be very kind on the internet are actually very mean or a bully, all those 'influencers' who are the 'role model' of their fans for their 'beauty' might use filters and make up to look that way. That's why we should never compare ourselves with anyone over the internet. But despite of knowing this fact some early adolescents often get insecure. They often think that they aren't pretty, they need to either gain or loose weight. They sometimes fat shame or skinny shame themselves. They try to do every single thing they can just to loose weight. They can risk their own lives just to look 'pretty'. The worst thing is, if someone is skinny we ask them to gain some weight but when they actually gain weight we point out at it like it's a flaw when it is not. What we need to understand is, there is no need to be 'attractive', we all are already very pretty, we don't need to be attractive for others or according to others. It's okay to be healthy, it's okay to be skinny. Though it's very hard to overcome our insecurity and stop judging ourselves on the basis of some unrealistic 'standards' which are set by others we should still try to overcome our insecurity .Not today but at least tomorrow or maybe the day after tomorrow we will be able to overcome our insecurity. And for this we need to have self control and remember:
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